MEMORIESOFTOMANDERSEN-LYNNHOFFMANIfirstmetTomduringaseminarin1979,runbyPhilippeCaille,whowasteachingfamilytherapyattheUniversityofOslo HehadheardIwasinItalyandaskedmetocometoNorway SoIstayedwithhisfamilyandthenmethisstudents,abouteightofthem,includingagroupfromTromsoethatincludedTomandVidjeHansenandoneothermanwhosenameIonlyrememberas“Odd ”Onthemorningoftheseminar’ssecondday,Tom’sgroupwascon